A Christian Father’s Rules for Dating My Daughter

I spotted a photo in my newsfeed yesterday of the T-shirt a feminist father made to explain his expectations to anyone interested in dating his daughter. His “rules” sent a clear message: “What my daughter does is her own business, and you’ll answer to her, not to me.”

As the father of four daughters myself, I found this man’s laissez-faire attitude to be a little unsettling. I believe a dad has a moral obligation to protect his children from harm, to prepare them for life, and to provide wise counsel along the way — all of which calls for a hands-on approach to parenting.

I agree with Feminist Father on his first two points (I don’t make the rules and You don’t make the rules). However, I disagree with his conclusions, so I decided to create a little T-shirt of my own — a Christian Dad’s response to Feminist Father, if you will:

"Rules for Dating My Daughter" | One Christian Dad's response to a "Feminist Father" (alltruthisgodstruth.com)

GOD makes the rules. And His way is better than anything we could dream up.

I know that none of the men who date (or eventually marry) my daughters will be perfect.

I don’t expect them to be.

But I do expect them to have hearts on fire for Jesus. I pray that they’ll follow His example. I want them to love my daughters with an enduring, committed, self-sacrificing love.

All others need not apply.


What sort of rules or guidelines have you set for your sons and daughters when it comes to dating? Tell us about them in the comment section below.

Want a “Dating Rules” T-Shirt for yourself or someone you love? They’re available here in a variety of colors. (Please note that the graphic is on the front of the shirt, not the back).

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